tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19133339.post7076628599956623030..comments2024-01-17T01:15:41.107-05:00Comments on Babies or Not: The Main EventAmyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11138395551574894313noreply@blogger.comBlogger29125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19133339.post-17239226296732025642008-05-24T22:42:00.000-04:002008-05-24T22:42:00.000-04:00Thank you for sharing your experience. I have just...Thank you for sharing your experience. I have just had my 4th m/c in one year; the first three unassisted pregnancies and natural m/c; the 4th, we saw a specialist and they told us the pregnancy was not viable when they did the ultrasound, then in the next breath, started scheduling us for a d&c. I declined, telling them that I had 3 previous m/c on my own, so thanks but no thanks. It made me so angry that they were so cold about it.<BR/><BR/>I must agree with Onward and Upward, that although you suffered another loss, you triumphed in choosing to allow your body to do what it was made to do.<BR/><BR/>I myself felt proud and accomplished that I went through two m/c labors on my own (first two were early, second two were at 12 and 13 weeks), made me feel like I'd have my next child in an unassisted homebirth!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19133339.post-13082596844021672032007-09-03T00:56:00.000-04:002007-09-03T00:56:00.000-04:00So sorry to hear of your loss. My own m/cs have al...So sorry to hear of your loss. My own m/cs have also been extremely painful and surreal. May you be blessed with a healthy child in your arms!Heather@To Sow a Seedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01801023059610181418noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19133339.post-44578223943119396732007-09-01T04:00:00.000-04:002007-09-01T04:00:00.000-04:00You have my sympathy and support! I lost another l...You have my sympathy and support! I lost another little angel yesterday. This time without warning or cause or understanding. This is the second time in eight months! I found out I was pregnant this just days after my due date for the other baby!<BR/><BR/>We have no idea why, but my babies never grow or develope heartbeats! I can get pregnant, but can't carry! I hope the tests, while heartbreaking, yeild some type of path for you!<BR/><BR/>My doctors are not hopeful, but I will not give up on hold my babies one day! <BR/><BR/>To you and all those who have experienced this loss, keep you head up and march on! We will survive, remain strong, then share our stories and tears, united by all the precious little ones that brought us here!<BR/><BR/>My you be blessed with a beautiful, health, happy baby!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19133339.post-9043806999291457022007-08-31T12:42:00.000-04:002007-08-31T12:42:00.000-04:00I am so sorry for your loss. Let me know if there ...I am so sorry for your loss. Let me know if there is anything I can do. I know we're practically strangers and yet not because we've both traveled similar paths. Take care of yourself.Alizahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06716958222271897719noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19133339.post-32771779630785737152007-08-24T21:21:00.000-04:002007-08-24T21:21:00.000-04:00You are an amazing writer. I am so sorry you had ...You are an amazing writer. I am so sorry you had to go through such a difficult ordeal, but thank you for sharing it with us out in cyberspace.<BR/><BR/>We are rooting for you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19133339.post-36111246784843804452007-08-24T18:14:00.000-04:002007-08-24T18:14:00.000-04:00Oh Amy - I am so sorry this happened to you. I ho...Oh Amy - I am so sorry this happened to you. I hope the analysis does give you some answers. For what it is worth...and when you are ready...Dr. Johnathan Scher in NYC is a very good repeat miscarriage specialist. I highly recommend him -- perhaps now is not the time to be writing this but if I can offer even a little bit of hope/help to you in your bleakest moment...well, I'll take the chance that such advise might be inappropriate. Big hug to you and I will be praying (in my agnostic way!) that one day you will have a very different result. xoxo SuzanneAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19133339.post-67678824460506254302007-08-24T16:13:00.000-04:002007-08-24T16:13:00.000-04:00There are no words. Except to say- you're not alo...There are no words. Except to say- you're not alone. Peace to you.Sammi2 on Ravhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00157165908405792643noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19133339.post-57433419945127485772007-08-22T17:55:00.000-04:002007-08-22T17:55:00.000-04:00I am so sorry.I am so sorry.Sunnyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14570018200281339937noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19133339.post-25996048461901337372007-08-22T15:39:00.000-04:002007-08-22T15:39:00.000-04:00I am so sorry for your loss! I hope you are able ...I am so sorry for your loss! <BR/><BR/>I hope you are able to get some answers. I can't believe you have had to go through this 3 times. I really hope this is the last.Rachelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09708675281321049193noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19133339.post-84187217539112817742007-08-22T03:12:00.000-04:002007-08-22T03:12:00.000-04:00I am so sorry! My thoughts are with you and J.I am so sorry! My thoughts are with you and J.ellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17151586624112741483noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19133339.post-88983101947050622772007-08-21T23:35:00.000-04:002007-08-21T23:35:00.000-04:00I am sorry!. I hope that since you were able to ex...I am sorry!. I hope that since you were able to experience this on your terms the clouser comes fast for you and you can have a clear mind. I am so sorry. Hugs,<BR/>FeliciaFeliciahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00825285492014008163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19133339.post-19849373999071506012007-08-21T22:45:00.000-04:002007-08-21T22:45:00.000-04:00With my first of two miscarriages, I too had to fi...With my first of two miscarriages, I too had to fish my 'tissue' out of the toilet after it had passed. It was almost an out of body experience. I couldn't believe that this tissue could have turned into a baby, a human. <BR/>I'm so sorry you're having to go through this. I know no words really help. Only time.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19133339.post-65375841699278618362007-08-21T22:28:00.000-04:002007-08-21T22:28:00.000-04:00I'm very sorry for your loss.I'm very sorry for your loss.Debhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07867933967446707278noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19133339.post-3262018431719743052007-08-21T19:30:00.000-04:002007-08-21T19:30:00.000-04:00I'm so sorry for your loss. What you said about yo...I'm so sorry for your loss. What you said about your almost-baby, pre-baby - what can we call it? moved me very much. I had a m/c and will soon have the follow-up OB app't where I will learn, or not, the reason for the m/c. I cried a lot thinking that when I went home from the hospital procedure, it (the pre-baby) stayed there. It is just now starting to lift a little. I send you all best wishes.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19133339.post-85214990058726173132007-08-21T17:45:00.000-04:002007-08-21T17:45:00.000-04:00I'm so sorry this has happened again but happy to ...I'm so sorry this has happened again but happy to at least hear that it's over. Please don't get your hopes too high about getting some answers - the odds of them giving any are apparently quite slim.<BR/><BR/>Hope you're feeling "better" (whatever that means) soon.<BR/><BR/>Anns xoAnnshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05561673371099391034noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19133339.post-34963153941087387182007-08-21T17:25:00.000-04:002007-08-21T17:25:00.000-04:00I'm sorry, just so sorry. I've had 3 mc's and whil...I'm sorry, just so sorry. I've had 3 mc's and while early, were horrid experiences. At least you might be able to get some answers through testing. We were not able to do so.Bless you, and may you find peace.Amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05908710843051928929noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19133339.post-3791554904509562022007-08-21T15:40:00.000-04:002007-08-21T15:40:00.000-04:00I am so so sorry for your loss. I do hope you can ...I am so so sorry for your loss. I do hope you can get some answers from this.<BR/><BR/>XOXOKristenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03542962726270982824noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19133339.post-543995211642224362007-08-21T15:27:00.000-04:002007-08-21T15:27:00.000-04:00i'm just so, so sorry you had to experience this. ...i'm just so, so sorry you had to experience this. again. how traumatic. i hope you get some answers too. thinking of you both.meganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13867137276917406552noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19133339.post-64750921692726080022007-08-21T14:35:00.000-04:002007-08-21T14:35:00.000-04:00I'm so sorry you've had to go through this.I'm so sorry you've had to go through this.Alihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00078208521476979186noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19133339.post-168133607167996852007-08-21T12:30:00.000-04:002007-08-21T12:30:00.000-04:00I'm sorry for you and J. But glad the physical pa...I'm sorry for you and J. But glad the physical part is done. <BR/><BR/>Glad that you might get some answers.<BR/><BR/>I know the out of bodyness and involuntary labor of it all too.<BR/><BR/>Hugs.Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05495123447176751636noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19133339.post-27945973350854128922007-08-21T11:21:00.000-04:002007-08-21T11:21:00.000-04:00I am so sorry you had to endure that. In more ways...I am so sorry you had to endure that. In more ways that I can possibly express. I hope that the analysis can tell you something.Olliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18244657426773193473noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19133339.post-31212079471288381822007-08-21T09:33:00.000-04:002007-08-21T09:33:00.000-04:00I'm relieved you made it through limboland to the ...I'm relieved you made it through limboland to the other side with no physical complications. You did it Amy, and while I don't know I'd put that under the category of accomplishment, your body and mind did do some intense work in the night. I wrote about you (without naming you) in my blog ... I am so glad you had J~ with you.<BR/><BR/>I'm keeping my fingers crossed that the examination of the fetus sheds some light ... you can use some answers and love right now.<BR/><BR/>I'm sorry for you and your family's loss.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19133339.post-37839642243361383072007-08-21T09:12:00.000-04:002007-08-21T09:12:00.000-04:00After one of my d&cs I went through labour pains a...After one of my d&cs I went through labour pains and vomiting the next night.<BR/><BR/>I found a natural mc cathartic, and appreciated the chance to see and say farewell to the embryo.<BR/><BR/>I hope you have love and support around.Drowned Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07930956007436787200noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19133339.post-72344992001112830572007-08-21T06:46:00.000-04:002007-08-21T06:46:00.000-04:00Delurking to say I've been thinking about you, and...Delurking to say I've been thinking about you, and I'm so sorry.berethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17601101168304644529noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19133339.post-82703502709047275252007-08-21T04:22:00.000-04:002007-08-21T04:22:00.000-04:00I'm sorry for your loss and thinking of you!I'm sorry for your loss and thinking of you!Danielehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17255763516507357558noreply@blogger.com