tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19133339.post5767582242826610987..comments2024-01-17T01:15:41.107-05:00Comments on Babies or Not: When it Rains...Amyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11138395551574894313noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19133339.post-46822905677037099622007-07-23T23:31:00.000-04:002007-07-23T23:31:00.000-04:00Amy, I'm a frequent reader and new commenter, and ...Amy, I'm a frequent reader and new commenter, and I just had to say how sorry I am that both you and your SIL had to go through this. It's -- crushing, I guess, is the best word I can come up with. It's horrible, and unfair, and I wish it were different.AmyinMotownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07003213937023515816noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19133339.post-3369402850623834602007-07-21T10:43:00.000-04:002007-07-21T10:43:00.000-04:00I am so sorry that you are having to go through th...I am so sorry that you are having to go through this. The pain of all of this is so hard to deal with and it is comforting to go through it with others. I know how you are feeling now, I was 11 weeks with my cervical ectopic and just waited - knowing that it wouldn't make it. It is the ultimate "screwing with your mind" feeling. The only thought that keeps me sane is just believing that this WILL work for us...somehow, someway, someday. I'll be sure to check in on you. <BR/>Thanks for your comments on my blog. <BR/>:)CAMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14642622288471660460noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19133339.post-20884640047565788132007-07-20T18:24:00.000-04:002007-07-20T18:24:00.000-04:00i'm just so sorry for you and your SIL. it's so g...i'm just so sorry for you and your SIL. it's so good that you were there for her. <BR/>i hope J's surgery is uneventful.meganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13867137276917406552noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19133339.post-39107146240102520432007-07-19T19:58:00.000-04:002007-07-19T19:58:00.000-04:00I find your strength and compassion truly inspirin...I find your strength and compassion truly inspiring. It is obvious that you are an amazing person, wonderful spirit and a women put on this earth to touch the lives and hearts of many. Consider this heart truly touche. Know you and J are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. KarenAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19133339.post-82036625830414460972007-07-19T14:53:00.000-04:002007-07-19T14:53:00.000-04:00I'm so sorry for both you and your sister-in-law.....I'm so sorry for both you and your sister-in-law...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19133339.post-24826420028697964802007-07-19T12:05:00.000-04:002007-07-19T12:05:00.000-04:00I completely understand. My 2nd miscarriage dragge...I completely understand. My 2nd miscarriage dragged on until 13 weeks... And we had good appointments with it and scary appointments- spotting, red, brown, seeing the heartbeat over and over again, and then seeing a loss. It was emotionally sapping- I cannot even explain how drained I was at the end of that experience.<BR/><BR/>You are such a strong woman to be there for your SIL- bless your soul.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19133339.post-8365926610286289682007-07-19T10:45:00.000-04:002007-07-19T10:45:00.000-04:00Amy -I wish there was more we could do for you and...Amy -<BR/><BR/>I wish there was more we could do for you and J~. <BR/><BR/>You are my hero for taking that step to try pregnancy again and for sharing your thoughts with all of us along the way. Knowing you just for a short time, I'm already reconsidering trying to conceive again and also starting up my blog again.<BR/><BR/>As I noted before, you are a very brave soul. But, even the brave need a break. It sounds like you've got great people around you who can help soak up the pain - at least as much as they can.<BR/><BR/>I'm thinking of you - call me anytime.<BR/><BR/>SuziSnoopshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04073711480744596045noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19133339.post-57621564104208946472007-07-19T10:41:00.000-04:002007-07-19T10:41:00.000-04:00I can't imagine how you must feel with all these w...I can't imagine how you must feel with all these worries on your mind. And yet you find the time and compassion to take amazing care of your sister in law. You're a star. Best wishes coming your way.Danielehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17255763516507357558noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19133339.post-1388556991220256572007-07-19T10:21:00.000-04:002007-07-19T10:21:00.000-04:00Thank you for being there for your SIL, I wish now...Thank you for being there for your SIL, I wish now I had had such a friend during my miscarriage.<BR/><BR/>A lot of folks are thinking about you and J and praying/hoping/wishing for the best. Remember how strong you are--you are helping someone else during your own time of need. Hang in there.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19133339.post-91179439223343368722007-07-19T09:57:00.000-04:002007-07-19T09:57:00.000-04:00How exhausted you must be.After I miscarried, a fr...How exhausted you must be.<BR/><BR/>After I miscarried, a friend of mine who lives on the West Coast said to me: if you were here, I would make you soup and make you take a nap. Even though she couldn't, it was nice to know someone cared.<BR/><BR/>I wish for you peace of mind during this emotional time and know people care.<BR/><BR/>MiaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com