tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19133339.post3570165592208219954..comments2024-01-17T01:15:41.107-05:00Comments on Babies or Not: BattlefieldAmyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11138395551574894313noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19133339.post-27532197301228953142007-07-03T09:12:00.000-04:002007-07-03T09:12:00.000-04:00First, I am so sorry to hear your sister-in-law is...First, I am so sorry to hear your sister-in-law is going through that. I hate it for her. Second, yes, that's a completely normal reaction. It is oddly comforting. Kinda goes along with the belly envy when we are going through our own tragedies. <BR/><BR/>I hope that this pregnancy of yours is the one that goes the distance.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19133339.post-33281309600018634962007-07-02T17:24:00.000-04:002007-07-02T17:24:00.000-04:00I totally understand your emotions and thoughts re...I totally understand your emotions and thoughts regarding your SIL. Of COURSE you feel horrible for her. Who could understand better--and that is why you are able to be such a good support to her. <BR/><BR/>To be honest, when I read your 1st post about your pregnancy, it made me insanely jealous. All while at the same time crazy happy for you. It came on the heels of finding out my one and only "infertile friend" was pregnant after her 1st IVF attempt, so, I was feeling very sorry for myself. Does that make me a bad person? No. Just human. Don't beat yourself up. Take good care. And, CONGRATULATIONS!!Frenchiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07549739192754072138noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19133339.post-48549226609281670692007-07-02T12:42:00.000-04:002007-07-02T12:42:00.000-04:00Sometimes we think we need to classify our emotion...Sometimes we think we need to classify our emotions as good or bad rather than just allowing ourselves have the experience of them. Why? <BR/><BR/>Bless you for being a support for your SIL!Pattyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00303174242363531142noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19133339.post-83886025975444963462007-07-01T14:25:00.000-04:002007-07-01T14:25:00.000-04:00I'm so sorry for your sister in law's loss, but I ...I'm so sorry for your sister in law's loss, but I think your reation is entirely human. Nothing is ever guarenteed, of course, but we're rooting for you. Congratulations and good luck!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19133339.post-10284105679802163032007-07-01T09:24:00.000-04:002007-07-01T09:24:00.000-04:00Honestly, I've had this disturbing emotion too. I ...Honestly, I've had this disturbing emotion too. I hate it, but I think it's normal.<BR/><BR/>I'm glad you're feeling good.Sarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03887313952590843057noreply@blogger.com