tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19133339.post113958139935813781..comments2024-01-17T01:15:41.107-05:00Comments on Babies or Not: From NoankAmyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11138395551574894313noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19133339.post-1139712733998166662006-02-11T21:52:00.000-05:002006-02-11T21:52:00.000-05:00I am wavering between be damn careful and have muc...I am wavering between be damn careful and have much fun...... Is it possible to do both at the same time????? I'm thinking of you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19133339.post-1139601333023160042006-02-10T14:55:00.000-05:002006-02-10T14:55:00.000-05:00I wondered about this, after hearing you talk abou...I wondered about this, after hearing you talk about him on Sunday. I know it's so hard to do, but I totally agree with PM that you need to make sure you're taking care of yourself in the midst of this, and not just getting lost in someone else. You sound happy though, and I hope that this works out for the best!Nicohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16777159761996555760noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19133339.post-1139595668896683692006-02-10T13:21:00.000-05:002006-02-10T13:21:00.000-05:00Oh man. You're on really slippery ground. I'm sure...Oh man. You're on really slippery ground. I'm sure you know all of this. I'm sure you and J~ have talked about all of this, but you must be very careful right now. Both of you. The emotional implications of engaging yourself in a new relationship so soon are enormous. And if he has a child, you need to be extra cautious. There are custody implications for him, despite the fact that his wife committed adultery first. If he's still married, and you're still married, it's still adultery in the court's eyes, separated or not. <BR/><BR/>*sigh* But I know what it means to feel like you can be wanted, attractive, desired, and appreciated, especially after someone has just told you or shown you that you are none of those things. I know what an overwhelming and empowering feeling that must be for you. <BR/><BR/>But please, be careful with your heart, not that J~ doesn't deserve your time and affection, but you really need to reserve what you can of yourself FOR yourself right now. The last thing you would want is for this new-found friendship to fail because of regret or guilt on the part of one or both of you.<BR/><BR/>Tread lightly, please. Just tread lightly.<BR/><BR/>Sorry if I'm being a downer...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com